So I am dating this guy and we were both friends before we finally got together. We met each other when we were both is serious relationships but as we talked about how unhappy we were in our relationships it helped us understand that it was time to end it. After we both broke up we got together almost immediately. He is the nicest guy I’ve ever dated he takes care of me like making sure I’m eating on time, I’m sleeping right, I get to work on time, and even takes care of my sisters like telling me to just listen to them if they are upset and just little things. However there are a couple things that do irk me about him: he is always working even when we are together he’ll check his phone continuously (he works on his phone), he’ll casually check my phone but won’t let me look at his, he still talks to his ex almost everyday (he says she always calls him so he can’t do much about it) (side note he told me today that she was begging to do it with him) (oh yeah she also doesn’t know about us), whenever there is something that upsets him he won’t talk about it but instead wait a couple of days and then taunt me about it, he also doesn’t last that long when we have sex so it keeps me wanting more and when I ask him to fuck me he’s like wow you cant control yourself around me can you? ( almost makes me feel like I’m begging him, he also makes jokes about how if I don’t give it to him he can always get it for someone else). He is a very nice person but I just don’t know 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️. any advice or thoughts??