Hi ladies I had intercourse with a guy on April 7th now before putting a condom on he flicked my clit with his dick and I immediately told him no- he needs to wear a condom. So he placed one on, now when it comes to std anything with that I am strict with wearing protection. He wanted to give me head and I told him no because I’m not down to return the favor JUST because he’s not my partner and I don’t know how cautious he is. Even though that’s all he did I started thinking the worst. I went on the 12th to get tested and what I failed to ask is how soon after intercourse can it even be detected?

I asked him when’s the last time he’s been tested he said March and that he’s cleared but I’m just so scared. This is why I don’t like being intimate because how much it affects me after.

So my question is was that enough time for std to be spotted? To be detected on a test?

So it was 5 days after intercourse