He played me ?!?!

I know I’ve been posting so many questions on this one guy on here, but now I really need opinions. I hooked up with a friend over 2 months ago twice. We talked romantically for weeks afterwards and when I was ready to commit, he wasn’t. Every day we talked he would ask me to just go for it, but I had just ended a relationship and I didn’t feel ready. Plus I was scared because he was far away and I didn’t know how that was going to work. When he ended it he told me that he wanted to focus on work, school, and religion. He told me he had a plan to be celibate for a year now but things went downhill and he wants to go back to that. Not only that, but he told me he’s not ready for a committed relationship let alone an LDR. 2 weeks later, I see him being flirty and liking pics of this one girl on insta. As of two weeks ago, he was still doing that. But also as of 2 weeks ago, he’s finally liking my pics I post and liking memes I send him and even commenting on them. Things friendship wise seem really good. However, I noticed he unfollowed all of the church instas he was involved in. Like ALL of them. I didn’t want to suspect he was lying in the first place but now I’m honestly pissed. I’m convinced he lied to me. Idk why he couldn’t have just told me the truth to begin with. Over a month ago I snapped him asking him something about what had happened with us and he sent “Hey I’m gonna be honestly because I can’t...” and that was it. As if he wanted to tell me something but he never did. Now I’m not sure if I should message him and ask him for the whole truth. I would have wanted that from the start. But, I just don’t want to ruin the somewhat friendship we have now. But at the same time, why did he have to lie? Was he afraid of getting hurt so he backed out?? Idk what to do!!!