Hate when people tell me what i NEED to do.

You know what i hate from day one of my relationship with my husband i have been told by his family i need to only cook the food's he likes i need to clean up after everyone and put away everyones clothing. I need to clean up after his kids. new thing is i need to make all my husbands food for him as i stay home all day. Let me make this perfectly clear i do not NEED to do anything. I was not raised in a home were a women is the maid and has to bend and twist to everyones needs and whims. I was raised in a home were everyone pitches in. In 2013 i stopped doing all the house work my self as no one helped me and its still the same today and will be always. Out of the 7 people in my home only myself and my son pick up after ourselfs. And we throw our trash in the trash can not the floor like my step kids and husband. Let me say this again i do not need to pick up after anyone but myself and my son. I was not born to be your son's or your grand kids maid they have hands and feet. You alone as him mom and grandma have made very spoiled people to the point they leave dishes on the floor and wont make there beds or pick up after themselfs. I wont bend to your ways as i was raised to be my own damn person sorry if you raised a man who cant even get his own glass of water. But i am me. And i will always be stubborn.