So Easter weekend my fiancé’s brother was in town from Colorado and he said he was going to come over and see our girls (5 and 1) my oldest was sooo excited! We’ll be never showed up! He decided to get drunk and then fight with my fiancé and say it was his fault for telling our kids that he was coming over! I was livid my fiancé was livid and then felt guilty when in fact he shouldn’t have!!! It only gets better! Their mom gets involved making excuses up for him that he didn’t want to come with out her and he’s emotional and he’s depressed etc etc! So they both called the Dad (divorced parents) and he calls my fiancé making the same excuses for him and that he’s young (25) so that’s what’s he’s suppose to be out doing!

My fiancé blew up on everyone! He hurt our daughter (mind you this isint the first time it’s happened with his family, but the first time she really truly understood what was happening). His dad was always because of work and he lives in Colorado so there was never coming later after work which I understood and never had a problem with it. The rest of them live in town blocks away and have done this to her! I am completely fed up with it and have been for years but they always seem to guilt trip my fiancé into making it his fault and then it puts us in a fight about me not letting my girls go over there or get close to them! Why would I when all that’s happened it her getting hurt!!!

I am pretty upset even with his dad this time! There is no need to tell a child you’ll be there and not have a damn good excuse why you cant come any more! My daughter was so upset that she didn’t want to go see him the next day on easter! I didn’t and wasn’t going to make her! She decided she was going to go. My fiancé new I was pissed already that he was going and that he even asked to take our girls! I stayed home or I would have made a hell of a show blowing up on everyone for being so cruel to my daughter! It’s already bad enough that she doesn’t see him but maybe 5 times a year but to promise to show and never show and have both your parents make an excuse!

Am I completely over reacting? My fiancé thinks I am and my parents agree with me! When I told my mom what happened she was about to drive over this my fiancé’s Mom and have words with her! (Mind you there is soooooo much past history from being pregnant with our first that would serve my mom right to finally say something, she’s always kept quite and let me handle it)