Okay ladies I need some serious input. My hubby and I have gone on a financial rollercoaster throughout these past 4 months we have tried to level out all of our financial responsibilities with that said we have not had a break to ourselves to go out on a fun outing just me and him. I am finally at a point where I need to get out. All the stress and worrisome is eating me out and I’ve explained to him on several occasions that we need to get out go on an inexpensive date. He always shuts down the idea because we are not financially stable for any outings, that he is focused on our future. One outing is not going to shift us away from our goals. I am blessed to say that I have managed to level out my finances so I have a little extra for us to go out. When I suggest an idea he shuts me down even if it’s a free event. He throws it in my face that I don’t understand him and am not helping out his financial situation. Let me just mention that all the bills are split equally, groceries are split, and when one can’t cover one expense the other jumps in and takes care of the problem. I don’t know what else to do to try and better our situation. My thought about going out to grasp some air, is that it will do our relationship good to escape from our routine and finances. This weekend I have a work function and paid for show and he is refusing to go because he has bill problems. Ladies give me some advice.