Am I an asshole?

My hubs and I were dozing off to sleep, when the mood struck me. So I fondled him, and it was on. We got a new cock ring, and he kept pulling out... I would literally be right there, and out. He got off, i didn’t

Now, I made a comment asking about what he was doing. I expressed to stop, and so when the show was over I told him it wasn’t fair sex was a two of us thing, but he was thinking of himself. He replied he wanted it to last longer, I said If im close what is the point in that? He looked at me.. started to again explain, and I told him it didn’t feel fair.

Now I feel like a jerk.