Am I too big for almost 21 weeks pregnant

Gina

My husband always body shaming me. This is my 3rd pregnancy and I always feels so insecure and uncomfortable with

my pregnancy body and always called me fat, I am too big than my other 2 pregnancy, I should let baby eats all my fats and things go on and on. He expected me so be small when baby comes out otherwise I won't have time to focus myself. I lost 36lbs right before I got pregnant. I am so upset right now.