Is my belly too big for 21 weeks pregnant????

My husband always body shaming me with this pregnancy. This is my 3rd pregnancy and he always called me fat, I am too big, always put me down. He said a lot of negative about me like my arm is getting too big and it is not like my other 2 previous pregnancies. I eat too much in every hour which he barely see me eat since he is always at works. He was like I should let baby eat all my fats so when baby is born, I won't have to worry about losing the weight and he Is concerned that I won't be focus myself when baby is born and I can't do that when baby is born. He always made me feel uncomfortable about myself and my body. I am so over it! I'm sick of cried almost everyday after his little comments . I lost 36lbs right before I got pregnant and it is not my fault that baby is growing inside me! It is so many things I can go on! Ufhhh 😢😢😢