Bleeding at 16 weeks

Harley

Got home from work today and I was spotting. It wouldn’t have worried me too much but there were clots. So I got out my dopplar and was able to hear the babies heartbeat! Called the ob they made me come on in quickly before closing. Good news is baby is fine! And I was able to find out the sex!!!! Bad news is my cervix has a raw area that is bleeding with I stress it I’m assuming from heavy lifting at work. And I can’t tell anybody but my husband the sex until next month!! How am I going to last!!!!