Mother Inlaw trying to..

Vee • 💙👼🏽Fly high my little man, Kitai Roanan Borchardt 060916👼🏽💙 & 💛👼🏽My First seed 070815👼🏽💛
So last month I had an early MC, I'm only 19 so yes I know I'm young. My partner and I have decided we want to try for our rainbow baby (we haven't told anyone) but my mother Inlaw is always on my back about using contraception. I don't want to lie to her but my partner doesn't want me to tell her we're trying again. Any suggestions on what I should do? 
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I would just tell her to shove it if she said anything. None of her business! 

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I was 18 when I miscarried and 19 when I had my now 4 year old. After the miscarriage my SO and I were so heart broken we began trying again as soon as the doctor said we could. We didn't tell anyone else BC telling them I was preg. The first time was hard enough and they struggled with the miscarriage too

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I understand you probably wanting to try after a MC but since you are so young, maybe consider waiting a bit?.....are you newly married? 

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Claire • Sep 19, 2015
I would use contraception fora while. Enjoy being young and planning and preparing for your wedding. It wouldn't be ideal or good financially to be pregnant and planning a wedding we got married last October and started trying that day. I got pregnant in March and am due in December. Good luck. Xx

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Vee • Sep 19, 2015
No we have agreed to try again :) and we're currently engaged, in the process of wedding planning :)

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That's really intrusive, but I'd just say 'we got this' or something vague and give that Stern look that says back off woman lol. That way it's up for interpretation 😉