Am I wrong here?

With my first 2 pregnancies I planned my own baby showers. My family tends to be lazy when it comes to this sort of thing, so I decided to take matters into my own hands. So when I found out I was pregnant this time I was ready to start planning my shower like 5 months ago, so that when it was time to party that's all that would be left to do. But one of my best friends and my mom persuaded me to let them throw it for me. OK I thought, it would be nice to let someone else plan it all. My original due date was the 6 of October I will be induced on the 29 of September though.

OK so as it turns out, no one really helped with much at all for my shower. I have been the one to do just about everything, and it isn't even until tomorrow, I guess I just feel like I'm too pregnant to deal with a shower or trying to fake feeling up to party as big as I am. I'm also mad I didn't just do it myself instead of letting my slacker support system help. My mom was complaining about helping pay for the cake, when she was the one who offered, and I've already put 250 dollars into the planning, and I still have to get the rest of the food. Aggggh.

Rant over.