Low sex drive

I love my husband and think he's the sexiest man alive but I honestly have no sex drive! We've had a pretty stressful time lately moved all across the uk with a 3 year old and no luck trying for a baby, maybe we pushed too hard that I'm sick of sex😂

My husband would like to have sex close to every night but he never does it in a nice way just waits till bed time pulls my underwear off and thinks it's fair game. I've old him too many times I'll never want sex like that and get completely dry.

He's disrespectful when I talk to him about it and just doesn't give a rats ass.

Don't know what to do?