Herpes

So my boyfriend & I recently went to Coachella where there was apparently a herpes outbreak . My friend texted me asking if I got herpes at Coachella ( before even asking how it was or saying hi ) & I thought it was extremely rude. I joked around back at her and said yes but then I said I’m joking and she said that the person who probably started it was the person that got their dick sucked on the Ferris wheel , then that girl went and shared a drink with friends or something and started spreading it .

I’ve been with my bf for 3 years , so for her to even jokingly ask that was extremely rude as if we were just carelessly hoooking up . 2 people offered us to smoke their joints which we kindly declined because I’ve always been extremely paranoid to germs and diseases (and she’s knows that) . She knows I wouldn’t ever share a drink , chapstick or anything like that so for her to ask was really rude . I guess the way she asked it too , like joking but kind of serious ? What do you guys think? Looking into it way too much or was she rude ?