Fear of never getting pregnant

I've been struggling with pcos for 10 years now, and recently also found out I have ankylosing spondylitis which causes alot of pain, stiffness, and issues with mobility. So far no medications seem to help my pcos or weightloss. I've overhauled my diet & lifestyle to try to manage both diseases but nothing. Unfortunately the medication options that my doctor recommends are not safe during ttc either & I cannot postpone treatment forever. Unfortunately <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a> or <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> is not an option for us either. So I'm stuck. I feel like I may never conceive or have the family I dreamed about & I'm not sure how to accept it as a possibility & move forward. Wanting kids was such a huge part of my future but now I've been given a very short window that has a very slim chance and not sure how to cope. I'm in therapy & discussing it with my doctors, but also want to hear if theres other ladies here who have been through similar & how you moved forward with your life & didnt let the loss of your dream overwhelm you?