How to reassure myself?

Brynn

Okay this might sound a little crazy... we were TTC for 4 years without even a pregnancy scare! I'm currently 19 weeks pregnant from my 4th <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. So far, all appointments have been completely normal, but in between appointments, especially right now, I feel so anxious that things aren't going to work out or that's it's to good to be true. I read heartbreaking posts about people losing their babies in their 2nd or 3rd trimester, and I guess I want to know how can i reassure myself things are okay? What do I need to watch for, or how would I know that I havent lost the baby? I have a doppler, but cant work it anyways so that's no help 🤦‍♀️ I have had so few symptoms my entire pregnancy so far, so maybe to me it just seems surreal?