So let me start by saying that I’m posting this anonymously not because I’m scared of backlash or scared of you guys finding out who I am. I started to have a secret affair with a married man who was about twice my age almost 6 years ago. There’s been our share of ups and downs and it hasn’t always been easy. And before it’s assumed no he doesn’t claim his wife beats him, or doesn’t respect him, or treat him like a king. He never really takes bad about her, unless it’s warranted. Like the one time she cheated on him. Way before I came along obviously and two wrongs don’t make a right🤷‍♀️. I’m not coming here for advice. I don’t expect that from this group. Everybody makes mistakes and nobody is perfect including the judgmental person reading this wishing nothing but bad. Truly I’m not the best person I can admit that. I’ve never asked him to leave her. For the people going to comment that he’ll never leave her for me. He would it’s been a discussion that he’s brought up and more than once that I tell him to stay where he’s at. I’m not the first I do have a feeling I’ll be that I’ll be the last. I’ve unintentionally hurt him more than once and as much as he may want to end it at times he loves me and I love him and no it may not be right morally but it is what it is. When we get into fights, I consider texting her and telling her. But I could never. Sometimes when I feel like he’s tripping I go to his house and sit outside in my car. I’ve ran into them once doing it she saw me🤷‍♀️. She suspects he’s cheating or she’ll make comments to him about it, even call me his girlfriend and he shrugs it off. It irritates me but can I really be mad I am his girlfriend. Yes we do public shit, we go on baecations, we go to the movies, restaurants, hobbies that he likes. We definitely do shit. I’ve met some of his friends, one of his kids knows. Well that’s part of my hoe story and it’s not the proudest point of my life. But it’s a part of my life. Who wants to share their hoe story next😂😂😂😂🍿🍿🍿🍿. If you made it this far might as well share your hoe story. Whatever you consider to be a hoe story.

Update: So for the people commenting no I’m not mentally unstable. No I’m not going to bash her and say she deserves it. And no I’m not asking for hoe stories to make me feel better. Some of my friends and family know and no they don’t agree but I’m grown🤷‍♀️. I just asked for others hoes stories cuz I like hearing hoe stories; be it past or present.

Update 2: For the new people reading this welcome to the party. Firstly I don’t really care that you guys think I’m trash or going to hell. It’s actually very common these days. More people then those who care to comment have done it. Shit I’m sure some of you your mothers sisters grandmas grandpas uncles aunts nephews nieces cousins and best friends have too. They probably just won’t tell you. Also a fun fact this guy I’m supposedly obsessed with has pulled a gun on me and her separately of course for different reasons and yes the gun was loaded. But thank you for comments I’ll be reading them until I go to sleep. Also I believe I’ve said I wasn’t proud but shit it’s done now so what am I sipped to do beat myself up over it everyday. Nah fam mental health is real. Don’t just care when celebrities commit suicide.

Final update: I didn’t come on here looking for sympathy if I wanted that I would’ve posted somewhere else. I don’t think my affair is funny although I do think you guys commenting that I’m a horrible human being when you know nothing about me is laughable. People make mistakes every fk’n day. I’m not proud of my decisions but it’s my decision and yes at times I do feel bad for her and his other kids. So you guys can continue to bash me it doesn’t really effect me. That’s the part I’m laughing at. You guys claim to be so fk’n pro women but the minute someone sleeps with someone it’s oh he’s married or whatever. That niggah knew he was in a marriage before I came along. It takes two in case y’all forgot. Just be happy it ain’t you, or it ain’t your man. Have a nice day.

To Elizabeth: sweetie you seem more than hurt and idk why😂 this ain’t you man so be happy❤️ and you wanna fight for someone who don’t know you do that. I’ll go round for round with her fk I care for...but the fact that you’re so butt hurt is why I made this post😂😂😂😂😂. I’m not mad about shit I’m at work laughing cuz this shit is funny af to me. Not looking for sympathy or anything else. I’m good where I’m at and he’s good where he’s at. Don’t like it then move on be happy it’s your man sweetheart all the blessings to you and your family😂😂😂😂😂. You obviously need it letting someone you don’t know and will never meet get you all riled up. But I do love in on the west coast. If you ever get out here let me know. We can go round for round over a nigga that ain’t yours😂😂😂😂😂

Well ladies thank for the funny responses especially you Elizabeth; and for the record you could NEVER hurt me, so nothing you’ve said has me butthurt🤷‍♀️. I’ll be honest nothing negative you guys have said has personally gotten to me. I did have a nice drive to work thinking about your comments and I laughed until I cried.

I made this post to say hey we all have things were not proud of in life; this happens to be mine. But all you guys do is criticize from behind your phones. I’d hate to be y’all friends😂

For the two people who were somewhat more caring than others thank you I appreciate it it.

Now get out there and live your best hoe lives you hoes😂😂😂😂😂😂😂