Parent problems

Lisa

I’m grown and married and live in my home. My parents have rented my entire life. They stay until the owner sales the house and then they stress and scrabble to find a new one then we must help then move. Well it happened again and this time the owner wanted them out ASAP . He had just bought the house. My mom called me in tears and that he was coming with a contract that said they needed to be out by the next day. My begged for me to talk to him. So I was there and we talked and agreed to give a lot more time to my parents. While talking we came to find out we had mutual friends and he understood the bind my parents were in. So then my parents had no where to go so they stayed with me and my husband with the agreement they would find a place. We help them move and place things in storage. But once in our home they said they felt that they didn’t want to move out of our house. I was like no so I found a rental for the price they were willing to pay and moved them into it. Now they’ve come into a lil bit of money which would be a lil down payment on a home. When I mentioned it to them they blew up. And said why? And said that I’ve never helped them ever. They also drive our extra car. We have to do all the maintenance on it also. They said that they could’ve handled everything themselves and I’ve never helped them. I’m like are you serious. They say they move unless they are forced and then maybe they will look into buying. Unfortunately they are awful with money and nothing stays long. They also said they don’t want to live in the neighborhood they have always lived in and they said it like they were to good. And if they do but they want a new home that’s dirt cheap . Huh. I feel hurt . All these years me and my husband have helped them. Even buying groceries for them monthly. I don’t understand. I feel backstabbed. I just want them to be safe and no more running to move every second. I’m tired. Don’t know what to do.