Not enough sex

Sandra

Hi ladies I’m 42 tttc my first. My boyfriend is 41. We have been trying for 4 months. The last couple of months my boyfriend says his stressed and can’t perform on command.

I want to have sex during my fertile window. We have some sex but not the whole window. This is devastating me.

Please share any tips how you all get your partner to perform during your fertile window and not make it a task.

Thank you all!!