My boyfriend sexually frustrates me. We don’t have sex very often mostly because he’s always EXHAUSTED from training and his hectic schedule. Our relationship is AMAZING though I might add. We get along very well and I absolutely am in love with him.

Sometimes, I want to spice things up during txt when we’re away from each other. Especially because his baseball season is starting and he’s moving halfway across the country so we won’t see each other for 5 months. But he absolutely SUCKS at sexting. Like, I’ll try to get it going and he will just be completely oblivious to it. And I get soooo frustrated and annoyed. He feels bad when I tell him what I’m trying to do but it continues to happen. I feel like I just need to be more persistent with him. My problem is, I’m just super shy and I’ve never been so upfront with sexuality before. I always want to play the nice girl. Has anyone dealt with this before?