Everyday between 5:30pm and 7pm shit just hits the fan. My partner comes home and bubs just turns crazy. It’s supposed to be his time but she just screams constantly unless I’m holding her. He gives up after a while and gets frustrated so I take her, but I feel guilty because he told me the other night that when I take her he feels like he’s failing but I also feel like he isn’t trying hard enough to settle her.

I’m at a bit of a crossroad because I can’t stand to hear her cry the way she does but I don’t want him to feel like he’s failing