How upset would you be to find out through someone else that someone in the family was expecting baby number 5? They're 3.5 months pregnant and don't want us to know because they know we have been trying for a baby. I would feel....

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Why are there only negative choices?
They were trying to be kind and thoughtful.

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Sounds like they're just trying to be sensitive to your situation. No need for them to feel bad for being able to fulfill their dreams.

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I wouldn't be upset at all. I would be happy for them. This sounds like a damned if you do and damned if you don't situation. Some women get so upset when someone else announces a pregnancy. But then some people want to be upset when they don't announce it.

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I'd feel upset but they're trying to be nice by not rubbing it in your face. That's really nice of them.

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Thankful that they care enough to not run it in my face....sorry that wasn't an option

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My sister and I were due a week apart. I lost mine at 10 weeks and she didn't tell me she was expecting until she was 16 weeks gone as she knew I was still grieving. With her last two pregnancies I was usually the first one to know after her husband. That was thoughtful of her and although I cried when I found out, it was nice of her not to rub it in my face so soon after my loss. I think it's considerate...

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I wouldn't be upset. I would be happy for them. Being upset about somebody else's pregnancy is not going to make you conceive any faster. Try being supportive instead of being upset. There is no need to feel disrespected or upset in this situation. When you finally do get pregnant you are going to want the same support. Good luck sending lots of baby dust to you 👶✨✨

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How about neither?! Seems like they were trying to look out for you.

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I have this situation right now in my family. My husband's cousin is pregnant with their 4th child together (they have 4 from previous relationships). They knew my husband and I have been trying so my mother in law had to tell me. I mean I am happy for them but it's just the fact they already have children and it seems getting pregnant has come so easy for them.

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This actually happened to me. My cousin who is with my husband's brother are having their second baby and is her fourth child, had told my sister she didn't want to tell me because she knew my situation and didn't want to get me upset. And she announced it on fathers day and that's when I found out and my family knew expect for me and I was devastated but either way is not their fault or anyone else's fault for my situation and it took time to get out of my depression but I'm not giving up.

How upset would you be to find out through someone else that someone in the family was expecting baby number 5? They're 3.5 months pregnant and don't want us to know because they know we have been trying for a baby. I would feel....

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