Shaving!

I’m 4 weeks pp today and I’m getting close to my checkup. When did everyone shave? I’ve been looking for my stitches and can’t see any but I KNOW I have them. Im scared if I shave I’ll end up pulling stitches out or something. Im going to be so embarrassed if I have to spread my legs with a full bush down there. No offense to anyone that likes having hair it’s just my personal preference to not have any. Advise would be super nice lol