this is a fellow friendly message to some ladies my age. maybe you’re young and you don’t want to do anything too sexual yet or maybe you feel like it’s too early in the relationship to do anything. if you’re uncomfortable, tell him. do not feel like you HAVE to do anything. it should not be forced and it should ONLY feel natural. period. if he doesn’t like or understand why you don’t want to do certain things then he either is not the right one for you or it’s just not the right time for your relationship. trust me, when you find the right one he will be understanding and WILL NOT TRY TO PRESSURE YOU INTO ANYTHING THAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO! and remember you should NOT need to have a boyfriend/only please him to be satisfied. it often leads to regret anyway. i made the mistake of doing things that i didn’t even enjoy and i always ended up regretting it and being super anxious afterward. don’t be afraid to speak up. not speaking up can lead to abusive relationships.