In middle school all the way through high school I straightened my hair everyday if not twice a day because it was in the stages of deciding if it wanted to be curly or wavy so I would get nests on my neck from the curls but it’s then loosened up more and now it’s super frizzy and wavy with some loose curls... but I decided to try to love myself more and not use heat everyday... my family always comments on it negatively... they want me to chop off all my hair but I don’t want to): It has messed with my self esteem pretty hard but I want to make it better): anyone have any advice?