Normal?

Question

My husband and I have just found out that we are pregnant with our first child. We are having a lot of mixed emotions about the positive result and don’t know what to do next. Is this normal? We are focusing on the negatives and not the positives!! Help!!!

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I absolutely planned my last baby. Charts, opks, preseed, the works. But looking at those two lines my first thought was “oh shit we are not ready for this” and then a few waves of panic. It’s totally normal. Thank goodness we’ve got 9 months to get used to it all!

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You should move this to the pregnancy group. This is not at all controversial lol congratulations though

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It’s normal, especially with your first child. No matter how prepared you are, you cannot know how you will truly feel until it happens to you. 
However you would be better off moving this to one of the pregnancy groups. There are some support groups available for those that are unsure or feeling how you are. On here in CC you may/may not get the comments you need. 
Good luck with everything.

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Sometimes it takes time to fully process. Your life will change a ton, it's normal to have a ton of emotions going on. Also, you should move this to a pregnancy group.

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Yes this is normal. Having a baby is a big deal. Your lives will be changed a TON. It’s okay to talk about it and to just let it all sink in. I didn’t feel happy or positive until the first kick and seeing my daughter via ultrasound.

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