Me and my boyfriend been having this same problem for a couple of weeks now and I’m getting fed up with the selfishness in the bed room and throwing up the past in my face, I personally want a break from him . I keep forgiving him and he keep doing the same thing his actions isn’t fitting his words I’m just getting mentally and emotional unattractive to him . I try communicate it just goes into one ear and out the other. ☹️. Please help