I am newly engaged to my fiancé and I am also in my first year after graduating college and having a full time job. After college I moved back in with my parents for financial support and emotional support while I transition from undergrad to full time career. My fiancé was also working in a different state already. Well he recently moved to my state only 45 minutes away from me and my parents house. It’s been great!

I was planning on moving in with him next December so I can have my last times and memories living with my parents before I move out forever. I visit him around every other weekend but he thinks I should come every weekend. I’m just trying to please both him and my parents because I know it’s hard for them seeing me grow up and move away eventually.

What should I do? Is it okay that I visit every other weekend or should I “be an adult” and go every weekend?