Fiancé will no longer ‘return the favor’ since I’ve been pregnant..

I’m 30 weeks pregnant and my fiancé is no longer returning the favor.. he says he just doesn’t want to. Then I ask well can you give me a real reason and he says he’s not trying to be rude during sex.

Pretty irritating considering I’ve upped the effort I put into bjs considering we have less sex and that’s what I get in return, absolutely nothing.

I’m not sure what there is to be rude about, the only thing I can think of is that now that my belly is big I can’t see to shave but I still do what I can by feel, and I’ve never completely shaven before either I always clean up underneath and the sides and leave a triangle. Not doing anything different. And he’s not the most manscaped guy out there either.

Just makes me feel self conscious especially because I’m 20 pounds bigger than I was before, again he has absolutely no room to judge.

Anyone else experience this?