I don’t know what to do about my situation

Sooo every one knows after your first time there’s no going back you just have that sexual urge always so I’ve been with the loml for a while and While back we decided to have sex(we are long distance) I will never think or consider even cheating never ever that it’s just that whole finger thing doesn’t always work for me I wouldn’t feel comfortable buying something from a sex store neither but the thing is idk what to do I mean this sexual urge is driving me nuts it’s been weeks !! I believe I’ll be able to see him next week but in the future idk what to do