The due date is January and I still need a few things but everyone I know has a boy and they're willing to just give me things like clothes and stuff that can be reused. However I still need some help with other stuff... But I don't know how to 'baby shower' so I'm kinda stuck lol and also just about everyone I know is in a rough spot with money and I don't want them spending money that they can't spare. I guess I just need some advice about what I should do. Please?