My ex cheated on me.. twice. The second time was physical, but who knows, there could’ve been many more times because he is a compulsive liar.

I’ve been trying my hardest to get over him. We’ve still been talking and tried to work things out, but there has been extremely little effort from him, and I’m tired. I just want it all to be over. I love him, and I’m hurt at the thought of not being with him even though he cheated. How can I get past him and move onto my life when so much of it included him?

Yes, I know this sounds dumb, but getting out of dumbness is a process, it doesn’t come that easy! Please don’t come for me too much, I’m trying. 😔