Am I overreacting

My boyfriend has been physical towards me in arguments but now I don’t know if I’m just overreacting. Overthinking things but he often pinches me really hard and it hurts a lot. It leaves bruises and he doesn’t seem to care just tells me to laugh it off

I don’t know maybe I’m just overreacting but I want him to stop

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Ap

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First its gonna be pinching then soon he may be punching you or throwing you against walls. If I was you I'd leave or explain to him that what hes doing is abusive.

As

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Please you are not over reacting. I’ve been in the situation. It started with squeezing my arm tight to kicking me down flight of stairs, punching me and breaking my ribs. It took years to get my life back together. Even still, being with now a great man, I flinch when we’re playing even have mental doubts. But a true man, a great man, will never put his hands on you. He will treat you with love and respect. He will protect you from all harm and never cause it. Please get out while you can. You have support. And please tell someone close to, they will be your life line. I told my cousin what was happening too late but the day he did that to me she randomly showed up at my place and found me. If I didn’t tell her I know I would have died. I support you, and yes you may be sad in leaving but there is so much more great things out there for you I promise.

Fe

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Leave.

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This is abuse. If anything you are underreacting. Leave him please! I grew up witnessing this shit. It was terrifying and traumatizing. Never let anyone get physical with you like that. Please get out of this relationship.

Ka

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Call the cops for domestic violence

Ja

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Definitely abuse, no one should hurt you in any way and if it were an accident or horse play he would apologize and never do it again. You are most definitely not over reacting. If it were me, I’d bring up the subject at a time when you’re both in a good loving mood and explain that this type of behavior is not only abuse already but that it lights up all of your red flags and make you feel unsafe with him and that being the case your future together is in real jeopardy. If it happens again or anything similar. Dump him immediately and don’t look back. Abusive people are great at minimizing their bad behavior and making the victims feel it’s their own fault. Do not fall into this trap.. much love ❤️

A

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That's abuse, please reach out to someone you can trust and leave the relationship and also get somewhere safe if possible. While others have mentioned talking to him about it, I'm a bit hesitant about that because he could get angry and do something even more harmful to you (especially since he doesnt care that he hurts you) and put your life in danger. I'd say leave the talking (if you even want to talk it out with him) until you're somewhere safe, like with someone else there with you. This is not okay behaviour.

A

A • May 11, 2019
*or emotionally harming you

A

A • May 11, 2019
P. S. You are NOT overreacting. I'm not sure why you think that or would second guess yourself. You are worthy. No one should ever treat you like that and please don't feel like you're "overreacting" when someone is literally faming yiy

Sa

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Please leave. This is abuse. This is not ok. And you are not overreacting. Please reach out to me if you have any questions I have left two domestic violence relationships. Please please please don’t put up with this you deserve the world not someone hurting you.

Si

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Not ok, stand up for yourself!😘

Ra

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Not okay