To me, personally, this is something that REALLY grinds my gears. I know a woman whose husband told her that she ISNT ALLOWED to wear shorts, tank tops, or makeup in public. Like.....?????? WHAT??? I'm sorry but you are a GROWN ASS WOMAN and it is wrong that your husband tries to act like he's the only one in the world that is ever allowed to think that you look nice. I don't know, it really bugs me. As a result, her self esteem totally sucks because she is only "allowed" to wear dumpy clothes and stuff in public. It bugs me. Am I in the wrong?? Would this bother you?? If my husband ever tried to do this to me I'd show him the door and let it hit him on the way out