Dont let a man guilt you into sex

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I'll keep this short. I'm not sure who needs to read this but a real man will never pressure you. Dont listen to their bullshit excuses or make you feel guilty for not. I've fallen for it so many times. This time was different. I was talking to this guy for a week or so planning on being FWB. we were sexting and couldn't wait. The day we were supposed to meet up life happened and I just couldn't do it. I explained how it's not the right time and all of that. His answer? A long paragraph message about how that's totally ok and he is so happy I told him because he would never want me in a position to feel uncomfortable. Then continued on about how he hopes if the time comes I will bring the situation up with him again but for now he will be happy just talking as friends about our life problems. I legit starting crying because I have never felt so respected by a man. I've always chosen assholes but he really opened my eyes