My husband and I have been married for 2 years, together 8 years. Lately my husband has been kind of distant sexually- and after some reflection I realized that it was often him initiating, and me “going along with it”. I told him that I realized this, and wanted to change my attitude. The problem though, is he doesn’t come to bed until 3 AM (which makes it hard for me to initiate sex) AND I recently learned through snooping that he bought a flesh light (kinda like a fake vagina). Well, today I found 2 home made sex dolls (basically leggings stuffed with stuffing to make legs and an opening between the foe legs). I don’t even know what to do... and I feel bad for looking and snooping, so I’m not even sure it’s fair game for me to bring it up.