If a baby daddy’s new girlfriend loves and take care of your child, genuinely respects you, and never over steps the “mom” boundary...should you continue to be a bitter baby mama??

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Why would you be bitter anyway!! If it’s over its over. You only look stupid in the end.

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I’ve never really understood the whole bitter thing. In my honest opinion only because I have been there. Yeah it hurts the relationship and family is broken but why be bitter. It only hurts the child or children involved. If it’s over it’s over and both parties will eventually move on to hopefully someone amazing. And it’s even better to have someone come in as a bonus and love your children and respect you as the mother. It’s so hard to find that these days...

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What’s there to be bitter about? That’s child’s play honestly. Y’all relationship didn’t work, it sucks and I’m sure it hurts. But why make not only yourself and him miserable but y’all child as well just because he moved on like any normal person.

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I accidentally voted wrong...as someone in a relationship with a father who has a baby mama who acted bitter in the beginning, I say let it goooooo. 
If the relationship is over, it’s time to accept that and if the new girlfriend isn’t overstepping, she is 1100000% trying to still figure out her role and your attitude to her will affect her and their relationship. If you and dad aren’t in a current relationship it is beat for the Child to let it go and come up with a comfortable co parenting situation

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As long as there is respect between all the adults and children involved, then being bitter just makes you look ugly. Just look at it as a bonus person who wants to love your child. There’s enough hate in the world, so I say welcome the love instead

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I'm a mom of three and stepmom of two. I love my ex's girlfriend! But my husband's ex HATES me because I have a great relationship with the boys.
And she has a tricounty reputation as a homewrecker and no one will publicly date her 😏😂

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Meant to say no

If a baby daddy’s new girlfriend loves and take care of your child, genuinely respects you, and never over steps the “mom” boundary...should you continue to be a bitter baby mama??

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