I need help. For the past few months my husband and my sex life has done down hill. He started working two jobs a year ago and since then we hardly have sex. I’m hyper sexual. I need it at least 2-3 times a week. Sometimes we go weeks without having sex and when we do it’s straight to the point. I give him some head and then get on top. There’s no foreplay so sometimes I’m not even wet and it hurts. He finishes before i do and goes to sleep. He has never given me oral or hardly fingers me (things that i want for him to do) so I feel insecure about that. So I’m left unsatisfied and have to use my vibrator. I’ve told him if he could use it on me after he finished and said it’s too weird. Not only do I feel unsatisfied but I feel rejected and it kills me.