Feeling lost...

Hello,

I normally dont post but I need some advice. Since Monday, my husband has not been home. He went to his cousins because he said he needed to clear his head. We have been fighting because he thinks all his actions and words are my fault. He has been bashing me to his so called "friends" and his brother. I have tried to help him and his family help him realize what hes doing is wrong. He neglects our daughter, as he claims he loves and cares about so much. He has pulled the pitty card and guilt trip card on me so many times. Says I need to seek help for my actions and he doesnt. But has been told I am seeking help but he doesnt think he is doing anything wrong. But he is. He allowed his cousin to call me names, he think I do horrible things. All I do is a stay at home mom, 2 months pregnant with twins and pulls this. What can i do? I love him to death but idk how much more energy i have.