Hi everyone,

I decided to post here because I have something that annoys me a lot and I would like some advice from people who have already experienced what I am currently experiencing. I hope I am not alone!

When I first had sex, I knew it was gonna hurt. All my friends told me it was going to hurt, but that it would get better after. Having sex for the first time wasn’t what I expected. I was in excruciating pain, like someone was putting knives in my vagina. I couldn’t stand the pain, which made my first time not a good experience. I first thought it was normal, because, well, it was my first time.

But recently, I “tried” to have sex again. Same exact pain. It was actually worse than the first time. The boy’s penis would have a lot of difficulty to penetrate and would always come out. I think the worse in this situation is that the guy made me feel bad for that, because he is used to have pretty good sex. He litterally left me there and went out to do some other stuff. I went back home, and never told anyone.

I am seeing my doctor in mid-June, but I just can’t wait to know if all of this is normal. All of this description to ask if you’ve already experienced this, if it disappeared after a while, or if you have to do something about it.

Thank you