I’m 41 nearly 42 with genetic high cholesterol, high BP and epilepsy.

My husband and I are TTC and although we have only been trying for 3-4 months. I keep finding the negative test results are really bringing me down. My doctor won’t do any fertility tests until we have been trying 9 months but I’m worried that although the ovulation tests show high and peak I’m worried it’s never going to happen and as not on my cholesterol meds I’m putting my health at risk

Does anyone else relate to this and have any advice ?