Complicated Relationship

Emily

So I'm with this guy who "doesn't do relationships" because he doesn't want to hurt anyone but we act like we're already dating. Like it's like we do everything a normal couple would do just not labeled (but we are exclusive). I guess it's just me wanting to take it to the next level. But sometimes I just worry he wants to be together for the sex (which is great) but then he acts really sweet so I don't think he does. Do y'all have any advice for this situation/mess of my love life?