Hey everyone, I’m super confused on what to do:( i came out as bi this past winter and i know for a fact that i like girls way more than guys and have always had crushes on girls in movies/tv and at school etc. With girls i get excitement and you know my girl down there gets excited too;)😂 so i know i have an intense sexual attraction to women.

But currently I’m in dating (not official but we’re talking about it) a guy and I’m not sexually attracted to him, and I’ve never been sexually attracted to guys. I think i can get emotionally attached to them just not want them physically. Which confuses me if im bi or lesbian. We talked about it and i said maybe i just need like a vibrator or whatever in bed because I can’t finish, and haven’t been able to with any guy, just girls or if i think about girls while having sex with a guy. Then we also talked about if we were to get in a relationship we’d be together but have threesomes with a girl so i can be satisfied.

It still doesn’t feel right. Like I’d much rather just date a girl and have the whole package. Ever since I’ve been with a girl I’ve realized how sex is supposed to feel. I don’t know wether to stay with him or call it quits. And also am I lesbian if I’m just attracted to girls? I grew up with very religious aunts, uncles and grandparents on both sides so i think that has really pressured me into feeling like i “need” to be with a guy. When to me it doesn’t feel right.