I’ve been trying for two months which isn’t long at all but the obsession and hurt already is there. Which is why I’m not really the most religious person but I have two beautiful kids, 2.5 and 13 months. I tried and go pregnant with each of them the first month I tried so it’s just a little different for me this time around. But I’m just putting it in God’s hands because it’ll happen when we are ready. So no trying but not preventing. It’s bound to happen soon 💕💕