I got pregnant with IUD, yup I’m happens. It was Mirena near the 5 year mark. At first they said non viable, and during a scheduled sono @ 5 weeks to determine which side of ovulation in case of emergency surgery.

Not only did that throw us off, 2 days before DNC a little princess was hiding under my tilted cervix came out to say hello.

I honestly was scared excited and every emotion you could imagine.

🌈 (Emo-Warning) 🌈

Sadly second trimester we lost her.

I was devastated, inconsolable.

I got another IUD and tried to move on. Recently in a car accident caused prolapse, my OB did full work up to see if I even had the choice at this point. Given age 38, and prior loss...

BUT I got green light that not only are my AMH beautiful and better than expected I’m a double ovulation fertile mertile. So we took out the IUD on March 4th. On 6th was weird,

TMI ⚠️WARNING ⚠️

I had what looked like my entire lining of my uterus. Clotty bright red all in one catch but around 1-2 oz. scared me but started light cycle two days later and had fairly normal cycle on 4/1. Best April fools ever!! I know to be patient and doc said to not try till after a cycle only because she worried that it wasn’t enough time for my line lining to hold and wants to make sure I avoided risk of another loss.

So how do I track OPK when it’s clear I ovulate more than once. We don’t have an exact on if it is twice or more or every other or how often but every time she’s tried to check I definitely do and when she’s found it it’s always been between my cycles but there is no method to the madness.

Except that Twins run rampant in my family. And I would not be against it at this point given that with the prolapse.

She’s worried after fixing prolapse that I wouldn’t be able to carry safely.

So not wanting to have early hysterectomy and all the circumstances we have the green-light🙏🏼

Trying to figure out OPK’s is like trying to guess what a man is thinking😭 and I will take all advices on TTC, OPK’s Anything that will help, ty in advance!

Our TTC PLAN:

Unsure we could not survive another loss.

Our agreement:

🌀Actively try

🌀Stay healthy

🌀IF we get a BFP we will patiently wait till 20wk before we get fully invested

🌀No TTC talk in our bedroom

🌀 The wedding is 2nd priority, if we are blessed before than we will postpone it.

🌀And no one knows we are trying.

🌀He even had his boss help him conceal Fiji 🇫🇯 water in sealed Greygoose Bottles so I could appear to be my normal social butterfly when we have company.

I am WAAAAY too optimistic because I have this weird urge to literally go buy two sets of everything now to just put it in a storage unit. 🤫

I will take any and all advice I just not sure how to work around OPKs when surge can happen unscheduled.

I worry about what my body is doing because the IUD has been evicted. However it was time to remove it anyways.

And quick PSA

All TTC have fun, I go to AliExpress and order random sexy outfits just to keep TTC from adding stress. But I wish you all baby dust, love and great health 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Any TTC that have had a loss/losses, if you need an ear, positive thoughts or just to talk, message me. I had a hard time finding help during that time but I am in a great emotional place to be there if any mommies need it. 🌈💋’s