Question : Do y'all think that when you're dating someone it's like you're interviewing for that "wife" position?

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This guy at my job told me that when you're in a relationship it's like the interview stage and then when you finally get married you got the job ? What are y'all a thoughts on that?

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I guess but I never thought I was interviewing, more like interviewing my boyfriends 😂 I was obviously a catch haha! Jk, but my husband did say that he “just knew” he couldn’t let me go or he would regret it because he knew I would be a faithful wife and mother or “wife material” as a lot of people call it. He was questionable for a while though 😂 I guess it depends on if you want to get married. I wouldn’t waste my time with someone who’s goal wasn’t marriage because that’s what I want. Interviewing isn’t the word I’d use though.

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It depends  I'm a firm believer into  horoscope traits is he a Taurus by any chance ?taurians are very much like that I know from past experience imma Leo so I like to breathe ans do my own thing but taurians seems to be on the hunt for wives ie husbands  more so then ant of the other horoscopes ir part of there traits as stupid as it sounds

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I mean, I dated with the goal of finding a spouse so yeah I guess we were both "interviewing" with each other....? Not how I would've put it, but I don't disagree.

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That’s a weird way of looking at it but I think it depends on your views on dating and marriage. Some people see marriage as the end goal and don’t see the point in dating when there’s no future. I always knew I wanted to get married and have a family one day but I never dated with the intention of finding my future husband.

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Yep totally what my husband said. Not those exact word but if i wasn't interested in being his wife or see if that was a possibility not bother saying yes to dating.  Some people aren't interested in dating for the fun of it. They want it to result in marriage.  Not right or wrong  just different.

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i’ve never thought that ever, even years into dating i’ve never thought about marriage lol 
it wasn’t until i met my now husband that i had a urge to marry him. so for me it had to be the right person who brought that out in me 🤷🏻‍♀️ never cared about marriage until i met him