I’m 20, a college student, and I live at home in the summer. The money I spend I earn myself, except for the occasional money my mom slips me for “just in case” as I don’t really carry cash, just my card.

I love to show off my body, as I love my figure. However, my mom, while no conservative, kinda has the same dress rules as a high school.

I love crop tops, low cut shirts, sexy things! (Examples below)

I get “her house her rules” but I feel stifled, she always supported my brother in what he wanted to wear, but not me. I’m also hot allowed to dye my hair or get tattoos.

She says a lot that I shouldn’t wear things, like the third items, essentially because I’m not “small enough”

I’m a thick girl with a tummy, and have to experiment with my wardrobe at school and buy versatile clothes to be, well, ME. Every time I show skin my family pokes my stomach, thighs, and make fun of how I’m a “big girl” or “chunky” and tell me to cover up, the last picture is something they have never seen.

My mom was my age I’m the 80s and talks about how wild she dressed and how revealing her stuff was, but also says she was extremely athletic. She essentially says I’m to fat to dress how I want to.

What should I do?🤔

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