Advice please!?

Christin

So people from back home (including old friends) are asking me if they can book flights here to see the baby. I know I’m being an ass but since we are from out of state it’s not like they stay for an hour and go like they are here for days. And all these people wanting to visit plus the holidays I feel like I will get no alone time just me and the baby to bond and it kinda irritates me. I pissed off one of my friends already who asked to book a flight a month after my due date and I told her not yet. Honestly let me get through the anatomy scan to make sure he’s even okay. She stopped responding. I’ve always been go with with flow so I think everyone’s surprised I’m like this. My plan is to tell friends they can fly in after Thanksgiving and visits are no longer than 2-3 days. Anyone else going through this!?