Adoption

I’m probably gonna get bashed for this which is why I’m writing it anonymously. I don’t care, I have 2 kids 5 years old and an 8 month old.. i suffer from depression and anxiety. I love my kids with all of me! && would never hurt them! My 5 year old has ADD and she’s very hardheaded, you can tell her not to do one thing and she will sneak and do it.. Whooping don’t work, taking things from her doesn’t work. At this point idk what to do. I’m VERY frustrated.. it’s to the point when she does something i don’t even do anything anymore because she makes me so angry... She was on ADD meds but i stopped that because she wasn’t herself she’s in another world when she takes that medicine. MOMS I NEED HELP! Give me advice .. I would never put my kids up for adoption lol i just put that title to grab attention.. thanks. Sincerely a stressed ass mom