Does this bother anyone else or just me ?

I made a registry of everything I NEED. I don’t want anything else because everything else is just extra. Today I got told someone can’t come to the baby shower, I told them thank you for letting me know. Then they told me “the gift isn’t off the registry so you will REALLY know it is from me.”

Why. Like why. I also feel like people are wasting their money because I’m either going to return it for things on my registry, or just not use it .

I know there is no way to stop people, but it really grinds my gears . I’ve been to a baby shower before where all the mom asked for was diapers, wipes, and books. Was it fun to only buy that stuff ? Nope, but that’s what she wanted so it’s what she got. 😌